| Assess? The Sufis believe you must evaluate one's | | | | naked for nude; which entails comfort and |
| ability for knowledge. The Masons follow an initiatory | | | | enjoyment in your body. Next comes your potential |
| process towards truth. Oxford teaches a process to | | | | for creating life and its responsibility. Once more you |
| evaluate ones learning style for linguistics to develop | | | | Toss the pacifier but keep the Teddy bear. Always |
| a style of interpreting a language to people so they | | | | giving up good for better.One of the most important |
| may learn. But the Sufi's go far enough back to | | | | steps is learning Self reliance and independence. With |
| actual teach you how to learn, with always the | | | | this you get to choose what rules and morals are |
| knowledge that there is still is much more for them | | | | you parents or societies and which are greater truths |
| to teach.How is one to live by the golden rule if they | | | | endeavored by the Holy Spirit or the collective |
| did not learn how to develop self esteem for | | | | unconsciousness. Jefferson's dilemma, he wrote all |
| themselves? How do you love another if you do not | | | | men are created equal but kept black slaves because |
| know how to love yourself? How are you to answer | | | | of societies standards. But then bore many Africans |
| someone when they ask you what you want if no | | | | as his own children. Abolitionists went against their |
| one ever taught you how to express your opinions | | | | parents and struggled for the realization of his words. |
| openly? What some people take for granted as | | | | Self rule, self retribution, and self redemption are |
| common sense, brings them up short trying to | | | | very important to bring change in our lives. Also we |
| communicate with others. Before you teach you | | | | must leave the world of the mother for that of the |
| must gage ones readiness to learn. Most collegiate | | | | father.For only then may we confront our fathers |
| school systems will not offer graduate classes to | | | | and take responsibility of our self's needs by gaining a |
| undergrads for a reason. Another mistake is to | | | | trade or fixing society where it needs mending. To |
| believe that something you learned as a child is so | | | | do so we learn to be Self motivated. As well we |
| rudimentary that every one else must of learned | | | | temper our sensual appetites but never deny them. |
| these things as they learned to walk and talk. For | | | | Embrace our animal nature but civilize it a bit. Then |
| you will be mistaken.For not all parents know what to | | | | before we find a healthy mate we must incorporate |
| teach their children. Because silly, it has not been | | | | a healthy sex opposite in your psyche and bring |
| taught to them. So how would they be able to pass | | | | balance to our nature. Then it is for us to Create and |
| on what they do not know. Or for that fact even | | | | teach our children and community. This is the |
| know that one day they must learn it themselves.So | | | | individualization process, the philosopher's stone, the |
| if I ask you to follow the Golden Rule, and you have | | | | holy Grail.Stories from Star Wars with Luke |
| been ignored all your life, you will in turn ignore me | | | | confronting Darth Vader and the empire to the |
| and expect no different. If no one ever gave you a | | | | Dorothy melting the witch to save Oz, these stories |
| hand up, you will never give a hand out to any one | | | | are about this important time and the lessons we |
| else.Most of the solid foundation to access future | | | | must learn to become adults. Some of us are forty |
| knowledge is laid in your childhood years. What is | | | | and still have not grown up. Any stage of your |
| everyday experiences becomes the norm. In these | | | | development that is missed must be made up at |
| years is what is called the developmental matrixes. | | | | some point.There was once this Drag racer back in |
| First you have comfort that is started in the womb. | | | | the fifties. He was the quickest thing in the quarter |
| At birth existence and separation is experienced. | | | | mile straight away. Some corporate sponsors thought |
| Soon afterwards instinctual thinking is developed.In | | | | he would do great in the big league on the circle |
| the first three years your sensual and emotional | | | | tracks. So in his first Nascar race, as the checker flag |
| thinking is sown. Followed by your logical thinking | | | | fell, he was into his third curve. Miles ahead of the |
| from five to twelve. Your basic core personality is | | | | pack. He lapped them all ,three, four, no five times |
| hammered out by four and it is soon socialized right | | | | before his car came to a dead stop. He just sat |
| after in school. In this socialization process the | | | | there dumbstruck as the others passed him three, |
| identity you gained at four is tempered by society. | | | | four, no five times. His problem was that no one told |
| What works stays, what does not is left behind for | | | | him he had to take pit stops from time to time to |
| good for better. But it is precarious time, for what is | | | | fuel up; never less change the tires or plugs. We get |
| beneficial may be given up due to pressure from | | | | far in life and career and feel like this racer when it all |
| your peers. It is the Nietzsche years, what does not | | | | starts to crumble around us because we were not |
| kill you makes you stronger. Like why do we need an | | | | told something as stupid as to fuel up our cars. Some |
| excuse to have children to have stuffed animals in | | | | learn that much and believe that is all and never learn |
| the house.In olden days they would be made out of | | | | to change their plugs or tires.Either like my Russian |
| wood and called idols and avatars. Granted you | | | | friend we remove ourselves from our parents during |
| should not carry one around as a safety blanket. But | | | | our teen years and loose what they have to offer |
| ever wonder why we give a small bear effigy to our | | | | to teach us; or they do not know what it is they |
| young children and rabbits at Easter? But pacifiers are | | | | need to pass on to us. He thought his parents were |
| right out, they screw up your teeth; what harm does | | | | to Russian so he avoided them when he was a teen |
| the teddy bear do? These are the years of | | | | in America during the cold war. Other parents abuse |
| intra-dependce. Your ego is in part controlled by your | | | | us in various ways in which their parents abused |
| elders."You must walk before you run, for if not you | | | | them. Some just never cut the strings and dictate |
| will be running all your life."Then comes puberty. In | | | | our lives to us.In the Rudolph Story, Herbie wanted |
| ancient societies we had initiation rights. Muslims had | | | | to be a dentist and all the other elves laughed at him. |
| circumcision. Aborigines of Australia have scarification. | | | | He was not given any reassurance from others and |
| The Catholics still slap their youth lightly on the cheek | | | | validation to his voice and aspirations. When a parent |
| during confirmation. We still have these rituals in the | | | | does this to their children, they limit their potential for |
| form of the police raiding and abusing teenagers hang | | | | success and happiness. A Doctor friend of mine had |
| outs. Another method that still exist is the no | | | | said that his colleagues who were forced into the |
| skateboarding signs in our public thoroughfares. But | | | | profession by their parents collapse upon their deaths. |
| the worst is the sending of our youth to fight each | | | | The parents die and it is now thirty years to late for |
| other in wars. These are acts by those who are | | | | these people to think for themselves. That is why |
| getting too old and infirm. These men did not follow | | | | they picked the mates that could order them around. |
| their myths to open up society for the new to enter. | | | | If they married the only person they could control, |
| Granted some kids need a little shock to be socialized | | | | they are in real trouble. You can not lie to yourself |
| into a society where they respect others rights as | | | | forever.In some stories as Cinderella and the Wizard |
| well as their own. But there was more important rites | | | | of Oz, the mother character gets split into two |
| than these.In Paleolithic ages men worshiped in caves. | | | | different people. What is called the borderline mother |
| Here the youths were passed through narrow dark | | | | is loving one minute and without reason cruel the |
| cramped tunnel like passages that had to be | | | | next. These mothers get split in the fairy tales to |
| navigated on your belly. These tunnels opened up | | | | illustrate the challenge children have to come to |
| onto large expansive caves that held the tribes | | | | terms with this dichotomy in their mother. There is |
| secrets on what is expected of every male in the | | | | the Fairy Godmother who nurtures them and often |
| tribe. Here the men germinated the seeds they were | | | | needs saving and then the evil witch or Step-Mom |
| going to give birth to. For when the youth exited the | | | | that needs to be killed. Unfortunately the myths up |
| caves, they were men now. Women upon their | | | | to today do not integrate the negative half into the |
| menstruation just become women though. The Jews | | | | good and bring peace to the whole. It is brought |
| had a red tent in which the women would kibitz with | | | | force and it is threatens so it fights to stay on |
| each other. Here they would pass their secrets on to | | | | creating greater harm that only resurfaces time and |
| one another during the weeks of their menstrual | | | | time again.The Same is what happens for men when |
| flow. Native Americans would drop a youth into a pit | | | | they kill the dragon or when Luke confronts Darth |
| in the woods for a month or two feeding them | | | | Vader. Actually Darth saves Luke from destruction |
| some bread and water every couple days or so. | | | | by returning the Anakin half of his personality back in |
| Here the kids seen visions telling them what their | | | | control of his ego. The Father saves himself to save |
| new name was and what they were going to do in | | | | his son. This is a story stemming from how it went |
| the tribe for the rest of their life. Were they to be a | | | | wrong in the Garden of Eden, through the |
| hunter, medicine man, mule skinner, or leader?Along | | | | Nibelungenlied to Tolkien, from Perceval to Star Wars. |
| with these physical rites there was the subtle stories | | | | It is the story called the Hero's adventure and is told |
| told around the campfires that had new meaning | | | | by what the Naskapi Indians call the Great Man or |
| every time at a different point in life they are heard. | | | | Jung calls the Two Million Year Old Man of the |
| Most of them just did not tell some simple moral tale | | | | collective unconsciousness. These are stories written |
| as in Aesop fables, but had layers upon layers of | | | | by people who have been there and done it before. |
| meaning. Like an onion. As a child they entertain. As a | | | | They noticed they were not the only ones who had |
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