| Assess? The Sufis believe you must evaluate | | | | your body. Next comes your potential for |
| one's ability for knowledge. The Masons | | | | creating life and its responsibility. Once |
| follow an initiatory process towards truth. | | | | more you Toss the pacifier but keep the Teddy |
| Oxford teaches a process to evaluate ones | | | | bear. Always giving up good for better.One of |
| learning style for linguistics to develop a | | | | the most important steps is learning Self |
| style of interpreting a language to people so | | | | reliance and independence. With this you get |
| they may learn. But the Sufi's go far enough | | | | to choose what rules and morals are you |
| back to actual teach you how to learn, with | | | | parents or societies and which are greater |
| always the knowledge that there is still is | | | | truths endeavored by the Holy Spirit or the |
| much more for them to teach.How is one to | | | | collective unconsciousness. Jefferson's |
| live by the golden rule if they did not learn | | | | dilemma, he wrote all men are created equal |
| how to develop self esteem for themselves? | | | | but kept black slaves because of societies |
| How do you love another if you do not know | | | | standards. But then bore many Africans as his |
| how to love yourself? How are you to answer | | | | own children. Abolitionists went against |
| someone when they ask you what you want if no | | | | their parents and struggled for the |
| one ever taught you how to express your | | | | realization of his words. Self rule, self |
| opinions openly? What some people take for | | | | retribution, and self redemption are very |
| granted as common sense, brings them up short | | | | important to bring change in our lives. Also |
| trying to communicate with others. Before you | | | | we must leave the world of the mother for |
| teach you must gage ones readiness to learn. | | | | that of the father.For only then may we |
| Most collegiate school systems will not offer | | | | confront our fathers and take responsibility |
| graduate classes to undergrads for a reason. | | | | of our self's needs by gaining a trade or |
| Another mistake is to believe that something | | | | fixing society where it needs mending. To do |
| you learned as a child is so rudimentary that | | | | so we learn to be Self motivated. As well we |
| every one else must of learned these things | | | | temper our sensual appetites but never deny |
| as they learned to walk and talk. For you | | | | them. Embrace our animal nature but civilize |
| will be mistaken.For not all parents know | | | | it a bit. Then before we find a healthy mate |
| what to teach their children. Because silly, | | | | we must incorporate a healthy sex opposite in |
| it has not been taught to them. So how would | | | | your psyche and bring balance to our nature. |
| they be able to pass on what they do not | | | | Then it is for us to Create and teach our |
| know. Or for that fact even know that one day | | | | children and community. This is the |
| they must learn it themselves.So if I ask you | | | | individualization process, the philosopher's |
| to follow the Golden Rule, and you have been | | | | stone, the holy Grail.Stories from Star Wars |
| ignored all your life, you will in turn | | | | with Luke confronting Darth Vader and the |
| ignore me and expect no different. If no one | | | | empire to the Dorothy melting the witch to |
| ever gave you a hand up, you will never give | | | | save Oz, these stories are about this |
| a hand out to any one else.Most of the solid | | | | important time and the lessons we must learn |
| foundation to access future knowledge is laid | | | | to become adults. Some of us are forty and |
| in your childhood years. What is everyday | | | | still have not grown up. Any stage of your |
| experiences becomes the norm. In these years | | | | development that is missed must be made up at |
| is what is called the developmental matrixes. | | | | some point.There was once this Drag racer |
| First you have comfort that is started in the | | | | back in the fifties. He was the quickest |
| womb. At birth existence and separation is | | | | thing in the quarter mile straight away. Some |
| experienced. Soon afterwards instinctual | | | | corporate sponsors thought he would do great |
| thinking is developed.In the first three | | | | in the big league on the circle tracks. So in |
| years your sensual and emotional thinking is | | | | his first Nascar race, as the checker flag |
| sown. Followed by your logical thinking from | | | | fell, he was into his third curve. Miles |
| five to twelve. Your basic core personality | | | | ahead of the pack. He lapped them all ,three, |
| is hammered out by four and it is soon | | | | four, no five times before his car came to a |
| socialized right after in school. In this | | | | dead stop. He just sat there dumbstruck as |
| socialization process the identity you gained | | | | the others passed him three, four, no five |
| at four is tempered by society. What works | | | | times. His problem was that no one told him |
| stays, what does not is left behind for good | | | | he had to take pit stops from time to time to |
| for better. But it is precarious time, for | | | | fuel up; never less change the tires or |
| what is beneficial may be given up due to | | | | plugs. We get far in life and career and feel |
| pressure from your peers. It is the Nietzsche | | | | like this racer when it all starts to crumble |
| years, what does not kill you makes you | | | | around us because we were not told something |
| stronger. Like why do we need an excuse to | | | | as stupid as to fuel up our cars. Some learn |
| have children to have stuffed animals in the | | | | that much and believe that is all and never |
| house.In olden days they would be made out of | | | | learn to change their plugs or tires.Either |
| wood and called idols and avatars. Granted | | | | like my Russian friend we remove ourselves |
| you should not carry one around as a safety | | | | from our parents during our teen years and |
| blanket. But ever wonder why we give a small | | | | loose what they have to offer to teach us; or |
| bear effigy to our young children and rabbits | | | | they do not know what it is they need to pass |
| at Easter? But pacifiers are right out, they | | | | on to us. He thought his parents were to |
| screw up your teeth; what harm does the teddy | | | | Russian so he avoided them when he was a teen |
| bear do? These are the years of | | | | in America during the cold war. Other parents |
| intra-dependce. Your ego is in part | | | | abuse us in various ways in which their |
| controlled by your elders."You must walk | | | | parents abused them. Some just never cut the |
| before you run, for if not you will be | | | | strings and dictate our lives to us.In the |
| running all your life."Then comes puberty. In | | | | Rudolph Story, Herbie wanted to be a dentist |
| ancient societies we had initiation rights. | | | | and all the other elves laughed at him. He |
| Muslims had circumcision. Aborigines of | | | | was not given any reassurance from others and |
| Australia have scarification. The Catholics | | | | validation to his voice and aspirations. When |
| still slap their youth lightly on the cheek | | | | a parent does this to their children, they |
| during confirmation. We still have these | | | | limit their potential for success and |
| rituals in the form of the police raiding and | | | | happiness. A Doctor friend of mine had said |
| abusing teenagers hang outs. Another method | | | | that his colleagues who were forced into the |
| that still exist is the no skateboarding | | | | profession by their parents collapse upon |
| signs in our public thoroughfares. But the | | | | their deaths. The parents die and it is now |
| worst is the sending of our youth to fight | | | | thirty years to late for these people to |
| each other in wars. These are acts by those | | | | think for themselves. That is why they picked |
| who are getting too old and infirm. These men | | | | the mates that could order them around. If |
| did not follow their myths to open up society | | | | they married the only person they could |
| for the new to enter. Granted some kids need | | | | control, they are in real trouble. You can |
| a little shock to be socialized into a | | | | not lie to yourself forever.In some stories |
| society where they respect others rights as | | | | as Cinderella and the Wizard of Oz, the |
| well as their own. But there was more | | | | mother character gets split into two |
| important rites than these.In Paleolithic | | | | different people. What is called the |
| ages men worshiped in caves. Here the youths | | | | borderline mother is loving one minute and |
| were passed through narrow dark cramped | | | | without reason cruel the next. These mothers |
| tunnel like passages that had to be navigated | | | | get split in the fairy tales to illustrate |
| on your belly. These tunnels opened up onto | | | | the challenge children have to come to terms |
| large expansive caves that held the tribes | | | | with this dichotomy in their mother. There is |
| secrets on what is expected of every male in | | | | the Fairy Godmother who nurtures them and |
| the tribe. Here the men germinated the seeds | | | | often needs saving and then the evil witch or |
| they were going to give birth to. For when | | | | Step-Mom that needs to be killed. |
| the youth exited the caves, they were men | | | | Unfortunately the myths up to today do not |
| now. Women upon their menstruation just | | | | integrate the negative half into the good and |
| become women though. The Jews had a red tent | | | | bring peace to the whole. It is brought force |
| in which the women would kibitz with each | | | | and it is threatens so it fights to stay on |
| other. Here they would pass their secrets on | | | | creating greater harm that only resurfaces |
| to one another during the weeks of their | | | | time and time again.The Same is what happens |
| menstrual flow. Native Americans would drop a | | | | for men when they kill the dragon or when |
| youth into a pit in the woods for a month or | | | | Luke confronts Darth Vader. Actually Darth |
| two feeding them some bread and water every | | | | saves Luke from destruction by returning the |
| couple days or so. Here the kids seen visions | | | | Anakin half of his personality back in |
| telling them what their new name was and what | | | | control of his ego. The Father saves himself |
| they were going to do in the tribe for the | | | | to save his son. This is a story stemming |
| rest of their life. Were they to be a hunter, | | | | from how it went wrong in the Garden of Eden, |
| medicine man, mule skinner, or leader?Along | | | | through the Nibelungenlied to Tolkien, from |
| with these physical rites there was the | | | | Perceval to Star Wars. It is the story called |
| subtle stories told around the campfires that | | | | the Hero's adventure and is told by what the |
| had new meaning every time at a different | | | | Naskapi Indians call the Great Man or Jung |
| point in life they are heard. Most of them | | | | calls the Two Million Year Old Man of the |
| just did not tell some simple moral tale as | | | | collective unconsciousness. These are stories |
| in Aesop fables, but had layers upon layers | | | | written by people who have been there and |
| of meaning. Like an onion. As a child they | | | | done it before. They noticed they were not |
| entertain. As a teen they bore. As a parent | | | | the only ones who had certain pitfalls before |
| they teach you that you should of listened to | | | | them, so they wrote the map for us to avoid |
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