| Men are at a huge disadvantage in American divorce | | | | to drive through it. I heard an interview once with a |
| courts. It is mostly cultural but it is there and it can | | | | NASCAR driver. He was asked about fire on the |
| be a serious penalty for you. | | | | track and what to do about it. His response was to |
| How so, you ask? What if your wife's lawyer | | | | just drive through it. All the time your head is telling |
| suggests she gets a restraining order against you for | | | | you to slam on the brakes or swerve to get away |
| physical abuse? Do you get to present your side? No. | | | | from it and here this great driver says you have to |
| Do you have to leave your home and your children | | | | keep going through it. Doing anything else will cause |
| and get looked at with a jaundiced eye? Yes. | | | | more cars to pile up on you. So too it is with your |
| Women file for divorce more than 2 to 1 over men | | | | divorce you need to just drive straight through this |
| what if you get blindsided with such a restraining | | | | thing. Your feelings are going to be telling you to be |
| order. | | | | sad, and get pity from those around you: that is a |
| Has this happened to you? If it does, do you know | | | | losing strategy. You need to keep your head in and |
| how to handle it? Do you go hire an attorney and | | | | find the best information and strategies that you can. |
| leave it all to him? Your attorney can be a great | | | | Women can be vicious when they come against you |
| resource for you but as with anything, he is not you, | | | | in divorce. This is particularly true if they have already |
| he is very busy, it means more to you than it ever | | | | moved on to a new partner. In this case they may |
| will to him. And the bottom line of this is, you need | | | | just want to take everything they can along with |
| to learn the process so you can oversee and | | | | them. The courts will let them unless you understand |
| manage him. You need to learn the possible pitfalls | | | | how to put the right strategy in place to stop them. |
| and what to do about them. | | | | You may need legal council but you also need to run |
| First thing, keep your head in the game. All of this | | | | the show yourself. |
| stuff is going to mess with your mind but you need | | | | |