How to Throw a Winning Father's Day BBQ

The first Father's Day was celebrated in the US aonline) for cloth napkins.
century ago although it didn't become a federalIf you're serving beer, ID rings are really fun, and
holiday until 1966. Worldwide it is celebrated on athey help people keep track of their beverages.
variety of dates---from December to January---andMany fit around bottles and/or cans. If you're serving
typically involves gift-giving, special dinners anddrinks in glasses, consider LED flashing light cups.
family-oriented activities. In the US and a few otherThey come in a variety of colors and can be set to
countries, Father's Day is celebrated on the thirdblink quickly, slowly or stay on steady.
Sunday of June. Here's how to throw dad a race-yThese useful food and beverage accessories prove
party that's sure to rank high in his standings.you can still have fun and be practical when throwing
Carry Out Your Theme in Everything You Doa party for your favorite guy.
Putting the pedal to the metal on this party, I'm goingEngage Your Guests in An Activity
to rev things up a bit for my Father's Day BBQOne of my favorite activities for a party...maybe
starting with the theme. I've decided on NASCAR! Ibecause I'm in the video business...maybe because I
chose it because, after football, it's the most widelycan be a bit of a ham...or maybe because it's just a
watched sport with over 75 million fans worldwide.great way to honor someone special in your life and
The great thing about using NASCAR as a partyshow them how much everyone cares...is the
theme is there are lots of built-in colors to chooseWinner's Circle Interview. This is one party activity
from -- yellow, orange, red, blue, purple -- andpeople definitely won't be expecting!
hundreds of things you can buy or make, that areYou'll need a video camera and some willing family
sure to ignite the right mood.members. You can act as the interviewer, or ask one
There are two tricks to getting this party off theof your guests to do the honors.
starting line. (1) Not doing what everyone expects,The best way to achieve a product you can all be
and (2) remembering this party is not really aboutproud of takes a little fine-tuning and prep work.
NASCAR...this party is all about Dad.First, create an appropriate backdrop for the
So, ladies & gentlemen -- start your engines -- andinterviews. It should be a well-lit place that you can
let the party planning begin.dedicate to the activity, maybe decked out with
Make Your Invitations Invitingflags and other racing regalia. Second, set up the
While there are many NASCAR themed invitationscamera on a tri-pod, close enough so the microphone
you can buy for your Father's Day NASCAR BBQ, I'mpicks up what people have to say, and third, prep
going to tell you about something different.your questions ahead of time. You may even want
Something people won't be expecting.to send your guests the questions before the party
All race car drivers have trading cards, so why notso they can formulate their answers.
make dad a special trading card invitation thatOr you can be completely spontaneous and roam
includes his photo on one side, and his driving statsaround as the party progresses for some color
on the other. NCR makes a product called "Flip Pixcommentary. You decide what fits the personality of
Trading Card Pack." Simply download the softwareyour group best.
template and you're off to the races!If you want to add more fun to it...create some sort
I thought it would be fun to include some or all ofof identification for your participants. For instance,
the following information on the trading card invitationhave the person being interviewed wear a special
such as when dad got his license, started to drive,racing helmet, jump suit or cap.
who taught him to drive, how many accidents he'sThe interviewer could also be identified with some
had, how many tickets, who he taught to drive, whoelement of clothing like a baseball cap, navy blue
he tried to teach to drive, what kinds of cars he'sblazer or press credentials.
owned, and what were some of his favorites.Lastly, have everyone come up with their own
Once you've gathered Dad's stats, include his photo,racecar driver name. "Hi, I'm here with Shelby Phillips,
and don't forget to add the party details such as theThe Flying Cobra. Cobra, tell me...what's something
date, time, and location. You could also use differentthat Dad has taught you over the years?"
photos of Dad on each card and encourageDuring the party, have everyone take their turn at
everyone to bring them to the party for trading orbeing interviewed. Some sample interview questions
sharing. So fun!might be: If you could take dad anywhere in the
Remember That Set and Setting Are Everythingworld, where would it be? If a famous actor were to
There's so much you can do when decorating yourplay dad in a movie, whom would you cast? What's
Father's Day NASCAR BBQ.something dad taught you how to do? What's your
Try using the checkered flag as the foundation offavorite story dad tells all the time?
your theme. Use checkered flag tablecloths,Once all the interviews are complete, play it back for
checkered flag table skirts, and actual checkeredDad and the rest of your guests towards the end of
flags on sticks as part of the centerpieces and otherthe party. Then give the interview to Dad as his
decor.present. For an unexpected surprise, you and your
My favorite items you may want to consider usingguests could all chip in and give dad the video camera
are a relatively new product called Lumi Loon Balloons.as a gift. Taking it a step further, show him how to
They inflate with helium and have LCD lights inside,operate it, too.
so they come in different colors and flash atSet Your Party Apart; Give Them Something From
different speeds.Your Heart
You can make bouquets out of them, put them atThere are all kinds of party favors you can give your
the entrance to light your guests' way into or out ofguests when they leave your Father's Day NASCAR
your party, or you could spread them around theBBQ. But I've narrowed it down to three ideas to get
back yard for added ambiance.you started.
Another fun decoration I found on the Internet is aI like the idea of using little gold trophies filled with
pack of Raceway Street Signs. They say "Pit Road,"individually wrapped chocolate racecars. I like the idea
"Victory Lane," "Gasoline Alley," and "Turn 4." You canof re-purposing the flashing LED glasses. Just wash
place them around the house naming various areasand re-package them in their boxes, either on their
such as the food table, bar, kitchen and bathroom; orown or filled with chocolate or gummy race cars. Or
you can just place them at various places in yoursend everyone home with a LED Lumi Loon Balloon.
back or front yard to get people in the racing mood.Dad, of course, he gets a copy of the Winner's Circle
Can't find a name you like, make your own!Interview DVD and maybe even the camera you
Using the above items, I plan to make centerpiecesused to shoot his interview.
for my food table, beverage area, and other mainWhatever special touches you decide to use, be sure
party spaces using an opened Matchbox lunchboxto include a little note in your theme motif...like the
(filled with Styrofoam) as my base. A few metalliccheckered flag design, that tells everyone how much
stars and glittery sticks add just the right amount ofthey mean to you, and how much you appreciate
theme colors to the black and white of thethem helping you celebrate and honor dad.
checkered flags. Then I'll cover the Styrofoam baseSomething like: "Thanks for being part of the pit
with chocolate racecars, and place the whole thing oncrew...it really kept dad in the winner's circle."
a black, plastic, circular, food tray from Party City.There are over 64 million dads in the US and probably
Whatever you decide to create, keep it masculineas many ways to celebrate his special day...but this
and try adding some personal touches you know dadparty idea is sure to please most of them. Even if
will like.your dad's not a NASCAR fan, he probably secretly
Don't Stress About Food and Drinkswished he were a racecar driver at least once in his
What Father's Day NASCAR BBQ would be completelife...maybe last week when he was racing to work...or
without serving "sliders?" Sliders are basically miniperhaps when he was a younger man.
burgers, so use your favorite beef and/or turkeyThis idea is flexible too. It can be used to celebrate a
burger recipes to feed your hungry crew. Just makebirthday, or other celebration for a racing fan. The
your burgers into 3x3 inch squares and serve thempoint is to make it special and to let the guest of
on Sweet Hawaiian Bread Dinner Rolls. Yum!honor know how much you care about them.
Serve your little burgers and bags of chips in foodI'm Shelby Phillips, "The Flying Cobra" thanks for
baskets. Consider using paper-checkered napkins forcoming to my party!
the basket liners, and inexpensive bandannas (found